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           She was standing in front of the mailbox at the road, waiting for me.  She opened the door and got into the car.  We exchanged pleasantries and then there was a tense silence.  I said,  “Anne.”

           “Yes.”

           “I have something to say that is going to be difficult to say.”

           I drove past the large white house where Betty and RoxAnnee lived and turned into the driveway of the next house about a hundred yards up the road.  I backed out quickly and sped down the road towards Berkeley.

           She said,  “You’d better say it fast.  I can’t stand long silences.”  She was wearing a very short black skirt that exposed well-shaped thighs.

           “I don’t want you to misunderstand me, Anne.  I mean I want you to listen to what I’m going to say and to hear me out until I’m finished.  I don’t want you to get emotional.”

           Her eyes glowed in the twilight.  We were going to Cody’s Bookstore to listen to the infinity-drunk, Timothy Leary.  We wanted him to remind us that we had evolved from an ape species that had just barely learned to talk on a planet that circled a star on the far edge of the Milky Way galaxy among billions of other stars. 

           In anticipation, perhaps, of Timothy Leary, we were aware not only of the unspeakably beautiful twilight that entered through the windshield but also of the fact that the light itself was only a record of the past: that it had taken eight and a half minutes to reach us from our mother star and that the light from Proxima Centauri had taken three and a half years to burst from the night sky and that our only theologians were the cosmologists.

           I said,  “I don’t want to have sex tonight.”

           “Fine.”  She tugged at her skirt self-consciously, as if she were trying to cover her legs.

           “Listen to me.”

           She was silent.

           “I don’t want to feel like I have to have sex, that’s all.  I didn’t mean to say that I don’t want to have sex but that I don’t want to feel obligated to have sex.”

           She was silent.

           I said,  “Thank you.”

           “Thank you?  For what?”  She smiled to herself, and I studied her profile and saw that she was very pretty, even though she did nothing to make herself pretty.

           “For not saying anything.”

           “Oh.”

           “I mean it wasn’t easy to say that.  To be really honest and clear about it.”  I paused, giving her the opportunity to say something, but she didn’t.  “I mean, sure I want to.... But ...  I don’t want you to think that I expect to have sex and that you can’t say no and I ...  I mean it makes me tense.  My stomach gets tense.” 

           We passed Kasper’s Hot Dog stand and came to a halt in front of a stoplight.  I was surprised by her long, meditative silence, and it gave me time to gather my thoughts. 

           “I’ve been having this tension in my stomach and...”  I wanted to say that the tension was one of the things that caused me to begin meditating again.  “I think it might be because I feel like I’m obligated to have sex.  Like it’s a kind of duty and I’ve decided the feeling is ... well ... caused by the male-female stereotypes.  You know, men are supposed to always want to “get some pussy,” and women are always trying to “keep their virginity.”  I think we should cut through that crap and you should respect me, and not expect to have sex every time we go out on a date.”  Her silence made me nervous.  “I will feel less nervous, and we can be more spontaneous.”  She looked at me with feeling, and I said, tentatively,  “I feel better already.”  We laughed, nervously.  I suddenly thought of Candy, whom I hadn’t seen in over a week.

           “I’m really glad,” she said.

           “Glad?”

           “I’m glad that’s all it was.  I thought it was going to be something big.  That you were going to tell me you were a homosexual or something like that.”

           I said,  “How could you possibly think I could be homo sexual?”

           “I wasn’t speaking literally, I guess.  I was speaking metaphorically.”

           I took out my pipe.  It was already stuffed with marijuana.  I lit it, took a hit and passed it to her.  She pretended to inhale and gave the pipe back to me.  We drove in silence.  I said,  “Well, I feel a lot better now.”

           “Good.”

           “I pitched two innings against Cal last week and didn’t give up any hits.

           “Baseball!”

           “They beat us 13 to 0.  They knocked all our other pitchers out of the box.  I was the last pitcher and I shut them out for two innings.”

           “Baseball is overvalued in American society.”  Her voice was sharp and stentorian.  It sounded, ironically, like a sports announcer’s voice.  “If anything, it’s a game for boys, not grown men.  I won’t waste my time at baseball games.”

           We leaned into the darkness of the Warren Freeway.

           I said,  “Anne!  We faced the best pitcher in college baseball, Andy Dangerfield.  He pitched a no hitter and I almost hit a homerun.  The centerfielder made a spectacular catch.”

           “Brad, you sound so juvenile, so out of character.  How can a man with your talent get excited about a boys’ game?”  She made a face and her voice was full of sarcasm.    “And it sounds like you’re bragging on top of it, like you’re trying to impress me.”  She laughed a dry, unemotional laugh.

           “Well, it’s funny that you would say that.  I’ve been meditating a lot and I think the reason I had such good control this afternoon is that I didn’t give a fuck about baseball anymore.  I wasn’t nervous or self-conscious at all and so my control was almost perfect.”

           “But you still put on a uniform and went to the game.  And you pitched.  You cared enough to do that.”

           I put a pinch of marijuana into the bowl of my pipe.  “Let’s forget about it.”  I lit the pipe and took a long hit.  I passed it to her and she stared out the passenger window until the fire went out.  She adjusted her glasses and pulled down her skirt, which was riding very high on her white thighs.  I lit the pipe again.  “Go on, take a hit.”  She put the stem to her mouth and sucked it with a sensual movement.  Her face was close to mine, and her breasts jiggled in her low cut blouse.  When she let the smoke out I said softly,  “Bring your face over here.”

           “What?”

           “Bring your face close to mine.”

           “Why?”

           I started to say,   “Because I want to kiss your face, stupid,” but I said instead, “I want to look down your blouse and see your tits.”  She laughed.  I said,  “I want to kiss you on the cheek.”

           She moved close to me in the darkness and I kissed her cheek. 

I said, “You’re very pretty and you usually do everything you can to hide it.”

The tension entered my stomach again.  She snuggled up to me and I put my arm around her and we drove into the darkness of Tunnel Road.

 

           We got back to Hayward at midnight and we were stoned.  I asked her if she wanted to sleep with me, in my apartment, and she was surprised.

           “I thought you said you didn’t want to fuck.”

           “I said I didn’t want to feel obligated to have sex.” 

           She put her arm in mine and we walked up the stairs to my apartment.  I opened a bottle of good wine and we drank it quickly.  I opened another one and we drank that quickly too. 

           We started to make love on the couch but she was cold.  I asked,  “What’s the matter?”

           “I don’t know.”

           “Is it tomorrow morning?”

           “Yeah. Probably.”

           “I’ll be meeting your brothers and parents for the first time.  Are you nervous?”

           “I guess so.”    

           I said, “Maybe we should go to bed.  It’s almost one.”

           “Yeah.”           

           My bed was a single bed mattress.  It lay on top of a box spring on the floor.  We undressed in the darkness and moved into the little bed. I kissed her on the lips. 

She whispered,  “I don’t feel like it.” 

           “I’ll sleep on the couch,” I said, sitting on the edge of the bed.

           “No.  I want to sleep with you.  I just don’t want to fuck.”

           I said, emphatically, “I can’t do that.  The bed is too small.  I can’t sleep on top of you without any clothes on and not make love.”

           She said, “We can sleep in each other’s arms.”

           Skeptically, I got into bed and we lay in each other’s arms.  I kissed her again. 

           She said, “I said, I don’t feel it.”

           “Baby.  I can’t sleep with you like this and not make love.  Let me sleep on the couch.”

           “No.”

           With my erection pressed against her I dozed and fell into a dream.  I awakened making love.  She was wet and responsive but struggling against me.  I came quickly and with great intensity.  I asked her if she wanted me to give her an orgasm and she said no and almost immediately, I fell into a deep sleep. 

          

           The next morning, I knew that she hadn’t slept all night.  I said, “I fell asleep.  That was selfish.”

           “I don’t want to talk about it.”

           “Did you sleep at all?”

           “No.”

           We drove to her parent’s house in silence and the tension was in my stomach again.       At the breakfast table, she didn’t say a word.  Her brothers were wary and her parents were baffled.  After we finished breakfast her mother walked with me to my car.  She was a large boned, Germanic woman, and I could see that Anne was a combination of her tall, fine-boned father who sympathized with me, and this woman who wanted the truth.

           When we were alone, standing by my car, she asked,  “What happened that caused her to be so angry?”

           The intensity in her face disarmed me.  “Nothing.  I can’t understand it.”

           Her large black eyes widened, as if they were trying to look into the bottom of something she was afraid didn't exist.  There was an uncomfortable silence.

           I said,  “We had sex last night and...”  Her eyes softened.  I knew she wanted the truth.  “She, uh, didn’t have an orgasm and she didn’t sleep all night.”

           Her face was soft and sensuous and her eyes swam in the universe of a mother’s anguish.  “Is that all?  Did anything else happen?”

           “What do you mean?”

           “Never mind.”

           I said,  “I’ll call her tomorrow, after she’s had some sleep.  She’ll be back to normal.”

           “No.  You’d better wait for her to call you.”

           “How long should I wait?”

           “I don’t know.”

           “I want you to know that I don’t really understand why she is so angry.  Did she tell you something?”

           She didn’t answer.

           “Will you talk to her and try to find out why she's angry?  And tell her that I don’t know what I did.”

           The expression on her face softened. “I’ll talk to her.”  She smiled.  “It’s not your fault.”

           “I didn’t do anything.”  

           “I know.”

           “Thank you.”

           I drove to my apartment feeling sorry for myself, thinking that I might never understand women and that it was probably Rhonda Bradford’s fault.

 

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